Sexy babe trussed up and ready to obey, not that she has a lot of choice.

If you have been following the fetish alphabet so far, you will have heard mention of Leopold Van Masoc, the person from whom the term masochism was coined. He wrote a lot of erotic fiction regarding bondage and the other darker forms of sex. His most popular book was “Venus in furs” that he wrote around 1870. It is considered more a work of art than of plain erotic fiction. It has been praised as “…Venus in Furs is one of the most typical and outstanding.

In spite of melodramatic elements and other literary faults, it is unquestionably a sincere work, written without any idea of titillating morbid fancies. One feels that in the hero many subjective elements have been incorporated, which are a disadvantage to the work from the point of view of literature, but on the other hand raise the book beyond the sphere of art, pure and simple, and make it one of those appalling human documents which belong, part to science and part to psychology. It is the confession of a deeply unhappy man who could not master his personal tragedy of existence, and so sought to unburden his soul in writing down the things he felt and experienced. The reader who will approach the book from this angle and who will honestly put aside moral prejudices and prepossessions will come away from the perusal of this book with a deeper understanding of this poor miserable soul of ours and a light will be cast into dark places that lie latent in all of us.” - FERNANDA SAVAGE

A copy of Venus in furs is FREE by the way from those great folks at Project Gutenberg (The name coming from the birthplace of the first modern printing press) Here is a link directly to the book. Have fun, and you’ve saved a few $ by reading it online rather than buying it from Amazon et all.

Tighed tightly and fucked with a torrent of water. Great fun for her, not

Urolagnia, also known as watersports. Watersports is an acquired taste, pun intended. It can be used as a method of control, degradation and just plain old kink.

A friend of FB, underhishand has just got onto special pee play items. she goes on to tell all, and puts it down as it is. Well worth a read. Linky

There are even some deliciously pervy picks of her modeling her home made piss gag.

PS if you want to make the experience a bit more tolerable for the swallower pineapple juice makes it that much more pleasant. If its a first time attempt, try it, be nice to start

TENS is short for Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulator. It can be used to relieve pain or, as we kinksters have found out can be used to elicit either pain or pleasure on the “victim”. These units can be very expensive or relatively inexpensive in the form of a hitachi wand or, if you want the full experience, try the full TENS unit. A great description of the use of a TENS unit is found in at another great kinky blog.

If you want to take a look at one of these TENS units, check them out here (Expandable beginner kit). There is even an intro to TENS video here

Self bondage, like its name implies, is about putting ones self into bondage. It is also a hotly contested and someone spurned practice in the BDSM community due to its extremely dangerous nature. People in bondage that can’t get themselves out are just asking for problems, especially if no one knows about it.

There have been many cases over the years where people have tried self bondage, got into trouble and unable to release themselves and have met with a less than timely death.

Word of advice: Just DONT do it (sorry Nike )

It’s that time of year peeps, when all the ladies start wearing sexy knee high boots and sexy tights. It’s fun fun fun time. I love them. I mean to me this is just as erotic as a touch. Seeing those sexy leather clad calfs tightly sculpted in sexy black patent leather just out of reach is so sexy and so erotic. I mean, getting to stroke those those sexy ladies is great. I guess you could say that ladies that do boots stand out a lot to me. Best thing is, this is all in plain site. No matter where you go, whether it be Borders, a coffee shop, a department store. They are all over the place. I guess im a refitist, but by god, to those that are, its just as sexy as ladies who show just a little too much in public. The big question is, are you a chunky heal person or a spike type heal. God I love winter

Pregnant woment need spanking and kinky sex too!

Refetism is the “posh” name for shoe fetishism. It is one of the more interesting fetishes because its a fetish that is in full view. It also has “levels” in as much as many men like women in boots, but at a more extreme level some people become obessesed with boots, just as some women adore wearing boots. It’s an interesting fetish. You can find out more about it here. Don’t confuse this with podophilia, aka foot fetish. It’s all about the boots (or shoes) baby.

The answer? depends who you ask. I think perhaps they do, if there is also a physical element. To be able to touch flesh on flesh, even in a most masochistic sense. It acts as a bond. Real long term online paired with offline may indeed work. However online only really works. There is no fear of the crop or hand to keep you in tow. There is no all seeing eye. No incentive tor deterrent. What punishment can be dealt remotly? Even with a webcam, your submissive, if they are not true submissive will not deal themselves a harsh blow if they have done wrong.
There are however some exceptions. Male chastity, believe it or not is exceptionally popular. It is a form of solo eroticisim that can be practiced alone. To take it one step further a keyholder is required. A keyholder as the name suggests, holds the key to your chastity device. Want to have a wank? Tough, you can’t (Well depending on the device, it may be possible but it will be obvious to the keyholder, and you will get punished.) Imagine three weeks and no release. Gets interesting fast.

Used to be nice female dominant lady would sometimes hold your key. But now, you can, if you are worth, have a pro domme do it for you. Check out here for an interesting read

What? Sometimes, you want to try something, you want to try it real bad. Then when you get to live the experience, it isn’t really what you expected. This came about with a friend of mine. He found a Mistress, a true Mistress. She was at first unsure that he would make the grade. He begged and pleaded for her to take him on as a submissive with a view to him becoming a live in slave. Initially it all started out well, and he got to have a taste of it.

He then was given a task he didn’t like, so he didn’t do it, and was therefore punished. The punishment wasn’t important but he wasn’t happy and it kind of dawned on him that, maybe, after all, it aint all roses and kinky games but there is a serious side to it. He realised he was a bedroom kinkster rather than a full on out and out raving extreme kinkster. So, just be careful what you wish for, it may not be what you want.

For intense ball-crushing play, pick up this acrylic cock and ball board. This board offers a pressure-filled experience for the receiver. To use, simply place the cock and balls through the larger hole in the back of the board. The cock can then “escape” through the second hole in the front of the board. Use the two included screws/wing nuts to close the board. The board can be closed all the way down to 1″ of space apart or as wide as 1.75″ of space apart. As the board is tightened, more and more pressure is applied to the balls.The front plate of the board is made of durable clear acrylic while the back place (with the ball hole) is dark-tint acrylic. Both plates measure 5″ across and 7″ in length. The cock hole measures 1.75″ in diameter and the ball hole measures 2.25″ in diameter.