There are no labels in BDSM
It dawned on me, whilst reading the book “Bonfire of the brands” that there is no label snobbishness in BDSM. Ok, i’ll admit there are egos to need to be stroked, but when it comes to actual toys and such you buy, you can’t say “Oh, i’ll take that cute little YSL flogger” I racked my brains hard, but cannot really think of any. I mean just imagine if we all became label snobs in BDSM overnight. Scary