Why Dommes can be so good.
A Domme and I were talking just a few days ago, about everything and nothing, and eventually the conversation turned to bondage and all things BDSM. She then demanded, in such a way as there was no way to refuse that I tell her what I had been thinking of bondage wise within the last few days.
Within 5 minutes, she had succeeded in reducing me to a quivering wreck of excitedness. She had mentally bound my mind. It is things like this that make a Domme who is skilled worth her weight in gold. They are able to take just a smidgin of a fantasy, and within a few carefully crafted sentances and suggestions (as in planting seeds in your head to mull over) can make or break your sexual fantasies. They are experts in what they do.