Ok, so we should now have realise clean house and lack of kids hanging round is the way to go.

So yesterday I said you should think about what your loved one likes. Got any ideas yet ?

Depending on if you want to suprise them, or if you want a bit of shock factor (only you can know this, but it could end in tears, or you are good at bluffing, you could ask them to fill in this checklist. However if its a first time, this is gonna have the opposite effect (My lovely lady was like WTF is THAT with some of them too!)

So you need to be a little sneaky here. You could use my home made game and ideas on introducing kink or you can buy them here

Basically you need to find out what makes your partner tick. This is up there in importance, fail to do this, prepare to fail. Also start to browse for some good toys.

One thing I found that I like is this silk scarf Why ? Well a nice sensuous scarf provides three things:

It’s a “safe” none threatening item, it is a “known” item that everyone has seen before

It is soft and women like soft and silky, Men don’t mind either. Men like soft and sensuous sometimes, but they wont admit it.

It provides a nice lead in to your kinky night. Thought, is key but hopefully your getting some ideas on the questions to ask, what options are open and how to make your lover turn into jelly in your hands.

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