What?

You may think i’ve lost it, but think about it. You can’t just proceed to the hardcore adult play. You need to make sure a few things are in hand! To put it another way, planning and preperation prevent piss poor performance!
Firstly, if you plan to have your home tidy for the big day, well, your loved one will smile much more and theres no back of mind nagging about dirty laundry on the floor and the likes, it can be precious “us” time. It alsom makes it a more pleasent environment to be in. Ok, now once its tidied you have to tidy up the social life. You will need to offload the kids and clear the diary. Really can’t help there Parents perhaps ? This is priority, after all you can’t really have a passionate and kinky night with the kids around!
Thats the main thing for today, ie prepare to have the place right for the night, even if it means you have to take a half day holiday. Make sure the kids are packed off somewhere safe. Also begin to have a think about what your partner would like? Are they new to kink, kinky and loving it or what. I will repeat, think about what THEY want and i’m sure they would recipricate. Happy partners, hopefully, will equal a happy both of you. For some ideas, you can read my “introduction to a first bondage scene”

Tune in tommorow for more (and apologies for not being round to kick this off earlier, but we all know what real life can be!)

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