Something occured to me last night with alex, when we met, she wasn’t particularly kinky, but had a wild side. As things evolved, she became more and more interested in it. She had no preconception of what BDSM was, is, or what is expected of her. She learned to love it as opposed to knowing before hand that it was where she wanted to go.

Just something that occured to me! What does this mean? Really it means that perhaps, if your partner isn’t showing much interest, you need to spark it. Get creative but kind, kinky but soft, and allow your partner to bite off small bits at a time, and if you help right and they have a small interest in it, it should all be good in the end. If you interested in a book I recommend, it would be “Screw the roses, send me the thorns”. This was THE book that I bought when I was like erm “whats it all about” and it does it all well, in depth, and keeps the humour. Its a good read!

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