If you always fancied spanking something other than the monkey, learning the art of spanking can be very interesting and very rewarding. Done right you’ll get your partner all hot and wet in all the right places. Done wrong and all that will happen is your hand will hurt.

To be really honest about it, introductions to spanking are limited, but as you learn you can add your own twist.

Once you have a willing victim, erm, partner get them on all fours on the bed. This will make it more comfortable for them and easier for you to start with.

The first secret that most novices make is not cupping the hand properly. If your hand is not relaxed and is taught all that will happen is that your palms will start to hurt and your friend will be thinking WTF is going on??!! To get it right, cup your hand slightly and let your hand assume a natural position.

At this stage, it may seem obvious, but start with gentle bottom spanks to warm everything up. If you rush in and start spanking as hard as possible, you will NOT be popular. As with everything in BDSM, take your time, its worth it in the end.

Now the second secret is to get into a rhythm when spanking, i.e. all your motions should be fluid and easy. So gently lift your hand and 12 or so inches and bring it down in a gentle sweeping motion on one cheek and repeat on the other cheek, taking it in turns on each creak. If at this point screams or swearing are heard, you just need to go easier!

The cheeks will go a rosy red glow and sometimes you will even see your hand print outlined if it gets a little toasty!

Something that must be said and please, please take note: Do not aim any blows of any type above the bum cheeks, it is EXCEPTIONALLY dangerous to land any kinky blows of any type above here because it can permanently damage people if landed in the wrong place. Just stick to the legs. One other piece of advice is don’t hit the same place too many times in succession or it will truly become painful and NOT fun. I like to alternate between cheeks and see the rosy red glow and to give each one a chance to recover. In the meantime. feel free to tease your partner between the legs as there private parts will be very accessible, and it will allow you to gauge the excitement. Just pay attention to the reactions and actions of the other person, because they may just have had enough or it may be a little overwhelming for them. Agree a safe word, and if they use it STOP.

If not, and you both want to get a little more kinky, get your partner to maneuver onto their back and spread their legs. This exposes the inner thighs and they are a whole LOT more sensitive to spanking and being played with than the buttocks. Its kinky and cruel, but by god it can be fun to see your partner wet and aroused from a spanking begging for more. Then you can move on to other kinky bondage until you feel it would be too cruel not to let them come

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