The paid professional
This is yet another greatly misunderstood aspect of BDSM. Pro Doms and Dommes provide a service. They provide a release from life and, contrary to popular opinion, its not about sex. Very rarely will an orgasm be on the plan. Its about a catharsis for the soul that they may not be able to find due to any number of reasons.
Not everybody has need of them but a Pro Domme, not the wannabe ones, can provide so much more assistance of a non-sexual nature. Those people that are new and nervous could (and do on a regular basis) use one to teach the couple the basics of bondage and dominance in a safe, controlled and knowledgeable way. Can you think of anymore qualified to teach the foundations of play ? This is, as in life, what you make of it. If you are open and honest with them, they will give you the keys to your very own life altering experiences. Don’t be shy because they will have heard it before and done it a lot more. Its their PROFESSION. Don’t forget to be pleasant and polite because at the end of the day, they deserve respect and are there at your request to help you.
Yes they may not be cheap, but they provide a means to kick start your adventure in alternative loving. They are often misportrayed but believe it or not these people do what they do for a number of reasons. Yes they make money, but an awful lot do it for the love of the job, pun intended. It is a calling, it’s not for everyone. Indeed there are numbers of pretend and wannabe Dommes. These, it should go without saying, should be avoided at all costs.? A professional Dom or Domme can provide a much more direct means of emotional fulfilment without any strings, emotional or otherwise.? It’s fulfilment in its most carnal form.