Ok, deep title, but I was listening to a Bon Jovi cd last night (yes, torture for some ) and then the words from the title struck me. Looking back over my life I have had anything but a normal one. To the outside world I am just an average IT joe, brought […]

Well peeps, I got my first piece of email from a guy called Doug. He just send me a two liner asking where he could find kinksters in his neighbourhood. Yay it must mean I have at least one reader lol
Well Doug, problem is, you didn’t say where you where from in general so i’m […]

Its interesting you know, when you tell your vanilla friends that you are a kinkster they will have one of two reactions (or variations thereof)
The first type will almost mentally shit themselves and never speak to you again.
The second bunch will start to ask questions, in a not so innocent manner. The first will say […]

It wasn’t long ago that I was talking about how people, incorrectly, just assume that BDSM is about pain and suffering. I put forward the view that if people were just to open up there minds a bit they may find something they enjoy. I also commented on that it only takes one bad apple […]

It’s not something I had ever thought about excessively, to be honest, but whilst surfing the net I came across a very attractive woman who had a huge, sexy tattoo.  Now, when I say a tattoo I don’t just mean some little thing, this was a full tattoo all over her back coming round onto […]

Hot and Cold - The Art of Wax Play
Bondage is a lot about sensations. Anything from gentle to rough, hot to cold. These invoke sensations unlike others and are unmistakable. Hot wax is a good start. Now as always, there is a catch. Hot wax or the wrong type of wax can be dangerous […]

Hold me, squeeze me, please me.
Yes its a bit of a glib title but its kinda what I’ve been thinking today, ie how nice it is to just occasionally have a cuddle and a squeeze with your favourite person. Sometimes full on kinkyness is too much, ie your tired etc etc.
What I find is a […]

Dual sensations are always a welcomed thing during sex and the Vibrating Cheetah Harness allows the wearer to enjoy multiple sensations at once. The included bullet vibrator slips easily into the pocket of the harness and gives the wearer sensual vibrations while they are engaging in intercourse with their partner. The 3 interchangeable O-Rings allow […]

As a kid I always knew I was a little different. I was curious and naked women were “ok” but they really didn’t turn me on as much as their dirty knickers did. My first real life panty sniffing was when I was about 17 years old. We had been on a trip to Portugal […]

We’ll be adding new stories as we go along, so keep checking on the site.  Updates will be posted here, as well.  Enjoy
I’m posting the first in just a minute…

Ok WTF am I on about?
In my desire to make getting into BDSM a little easier for you, I have a plan to do all the above
Bondage tape is often overlooked for its qualities. Its quick to use, easy to remove (if you’re in control) and can have uses to enhance and extend […]

The English Sexuality Impairment
Yes. I’m British (I know, we all have our problems ). But whilst I was “doing the day job”, the office staff got talking about a weekend in Amsterdam and within two minutes the conversation had turned to the red light district and brothels. Why? Well, unfortunately, the average British […]

Fisting can be very very intense and very very fun if done right. Indeed if done correctly a lot of women can’t wait till next time it happens
Filling your lovers vagina can be pure pleasure for both of you. Fisting is one of those activities where slow and easy is the order […]

You curious to see how it happens behind the real photo shoots, the tantrums, tears and real pain?
Ok, if you are anything like me, you love seeing how “the industry” works. Its more interesting than the videos half the time
However I was surfing today and I found this site and it shows […]