I am an avid linux user, because I believe in freedom. You too must believe in freedom, as in the individual type or what is the point. I started this blog to educate a bit, and to slake my need for peversions from time to time. Blogging on various  bits and pieces etc.

However, reading a well respected community persons blog asks the stark question of “is site x blogging or flogging” Flogging as in selling, not the nice type
I like to think most things here are useful to people, and sure there are links etc that help cover the bills that my perversion racks up. I have a few interesting things coming up so keep tuned for cheap but sadisitic fun that is all but free

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Ok So I was a little slow picking up on this one but …. Rickie Martin, the pop prince to some admitted to loving giving golden showers, describing it enthusiastically  “I’ve done it before in the shower. It s like so sexy, you know, the temperature of your body and the shower water is very different.”

Now if only some of the hardcore pervs would raise their hands we would be much further along

I know, I know, I’ve been missing in action for a while. What can I say? I need whipping with a nice (oxymoron ) whip.

So whats new ? Heaps. We have been experimenting with power playing. To say it’s awesome is just the beginning. Getting told to shove it up your ass can be a lot of fun, in the right circumstances

I’ll try to be a  better boy, but I have no guarantees and who knows. The GF may have me tied down doing naughty things to her unmentionables. Only time will tell.

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I got accused of this last week! And what shocked me more was that it was true. I was. subs need to learn that you are not right, your Mistress always is

I tend to push things way too far, not in terms of anything extreme. Just that I tend to get greedy (or a greedy slut as Mistress puts it). I think I learnt that the golden rule here is gladly take what’s offered, as it may be all your offered. Push to far and best case scenario is that you don’t get anything at all and cause bad feeling or worse, as Mistress did to me, tied me down and introduced me to the new pain of a stiletto heal being scraped down my chest. It wasn’t nice and I have like, so learnt my lesson on this one. And yes it still stings but I still have to say thanks to Mistress because it taught me a lesson I will not forget. It taught me that I may think I know what I want, but it is not for me to decide what I get, that is Mistresses job.

Rubber, you gotta love it, Wet rubber, even better n tasty! These pics appealed, I mean who doesn’t like tight sexy ladies in rubber. Check the rest of these pics here

Popsocks. Yes, honestly, there is a fetish that deals with pop socks. It’s kinda strange. I mean yeah sure, I get SM, I get bondage, golden showers. Brown showers are a no no though!

I mean, don’t get me wrong I have no problem with unusual, fuck, I have enough of my own. However, I just don’t get it. That gives me an idea, a few posts on what fetishes and dig and those that I just dont get. Hang tight!

Panty sniffing, it’s a pretty unique fetish. It has a bad rep for some reason. Not quite sure why, but don’t lnock it till you try it.

Why people like it?  Pure animal attraction baby. We all like scents. This is no different. Just a bit less “mainstream”. There ain’t much to stop you not trying it. The laundry basket is a good way to start. Just try it, you’ll love it. If your partner doesn’t mind, you can even request that she makes them all warm and tasty for you!

Want to know more, here is a site that will tell you more about it in a bit more depth.

The thing is, you just don’t know till you try.

It dawned on me, whilst reading the book “Bonfire of the brands” that there is no label snobbishness in BDSM. Ok, i’ll admit there are egos to need to be stroked, but when it comes to actual toys and such you buy, you can’t say “Oh, i’ll take that cute little YSL flogger” I racked my brains hard, but cannot really think of any. I mean just imagine if we all became label snobs in BDSM overnight. Scary

A Domme and I were talking just a few days ago, about everything and nothing, and eventually the conversation turned to bondage and all things BDSM. She then demanded, in such a way as there was no way to refuse that I tell her what I had been thinking of bondage wise within the last few days.

Within 5 minutes, she had succeeded in reducing me to a quivering wreck of excitedness. She had mentally bound my mind. It is things like this that make a Domme who is skilled worth her weight in gold. They are able to take just a smidgin of a fantasy, and within a few carefully crafted sentances and suggestions (as in planting seeds in your head to mull over) can make or break your sexual fantasies. They are experts in what they do.

It’s that time of year, when people make new years resolutions. Why not make a new resolution with your play partner. Although a lot of people deny it, fetish is a valid form of expression. What makes that any less important than “I’ll try to be tidier in future” Not a lot really. However you have everything to gain from making a fetish new years resolution. I’m making some, including hopefully keeping this blog a bit more updated in future.

Seriously though, this project, FetishBasics, as the name implies is about the a b c’s of creating a fetish lifestyle. When you visit some sites, you may see stuff that you don’t even know what it is. We are trying to put all this into simple terms. However we can only lead you so far.

Why not make 2008 the year you really start to look at your alternative sexual lifestyle, learn about it and embrace it. To those of you who really don’t have a clue but want to start, why not buy an introductory book on BDSM. A good one to start with, a personal recommendation of mine is Screw the roses, send me the thorns. It’s inexpensive, you can read and learn at your leisure, and then build upon that knowledge together (not forgetting to visit here also)

The new year also holds a few changes for this site. I’m hoping, during the new year to

New articles. We will hopefully have some tutorials on knots and tying up people (yeah the bondage thing)

DIY Toys. Toys are expensive, and if you start to get into BDSM in a big way, they get even more expensive, but to start with, we can show you some basics toys and restraints you can make yourself. We will even throw in a photo or two

More interesting reads. Want to know in intimate detail about the lifestyle of a Pro Domme, or a painslut, you will probabilly find what you want here.

Hopefully we will also find some way to make the site a little more interactive, because at the moment all the traffic is one way (more or less) Yes we could turn on comments on the blog, but thanks to the spam bloggers, it would be a loosing battle. To put it into context, I have about 300 drive by spams a day in the blog.

Anyhow, before I sign off just now, have a think - “What can I do to make 2008 the year I got kinky”

Happy new year

Stuart